The Real Girl Diaries — Episode 9

Let’s unpack this existential question while rotating between outfits, responsibilities, and mild identity crises.

“Who do I spend the most time with?”

Let’s unpack this ✨ existential ✨ question while rotating between outfits, responsibilities, and mild identity crises. Because someone’s gotta slay and emotionally spiral — in style. 💅📌

So… who do I spend the most time with?

Currently?

My students.

My colleagues.

My planner.

And caffeine. In that order.

School’s still in full swing — no summer break, just summer dreams and hallway chaos. So yeah, the people I see most are tiny humans who think “You look tired today” is a compliment (it’s not), and teachers who’ve mastered the art of passive-aggressive printer rage.

BUT.

Plot twist: I actually love my job and the people I work with — which is rare. Because trust me, I’ve done the “working in a place that drains your soul like a toxic ex” phase. It’s a no from me. 💀

Now here’s the thing. I can wear whatever I want to school (within reason — no crop tops while explaining literary devices). But last year? Different story.

Imagine being 24, walking in with a cute outfit and someone goes:

“You dress a little too young.”

UM HELLO? I am young. Should I have walked in wearing regrets and orthopedic shoes???

Anyway. Dressing how I want is my emotional support system. Like if I don’t like my outfit, my confidence level hits “tiny sad marshmallow” real quick. So here’s what I’ve been rocking lately (aka surviving the semester in ✨vibes✨):

🩷 Look 1: Pink & Whimsical Teacher Barbie

White flowy skirt, denim vest, bubblegum-pink bag — this is for when I’m channeling main character energy and pretending my inbox doesn’t exist.

💚 Look 2: English Teacher on Summer Break (Mentally)

Striped green pants, chunky pink sneakers, graphic tee. Basically the outfit version of “I make weird eye contact with plants in IKEA.”

❤️ Look 3: Red Knit ‘I’m Spiraling but Make It Cute’

Red vest, black mini skirt, red Pumas. I look like I have my life together but I just used dry shampoo as a personality trait.

🖤 Look 4: Denim Drama ft. Boots That Mean Business

Oversized denim shirt, red leather bag, knee-high boots. For days when I’m 20% teacher, 80% undercover detective in a Netflix original.

So yeah — I spend most of my time with students and lesson plans, but I dress like I’m on tour. Because if I’m gonna question the meaning of life every Monday morning, I might as well do it with good lip gloss and an outfit that slaps.

Catch me navigating adulthood, low-stakes identity crises, and the staffroom printer — one slay at a time.

Until next time, keep it cute and keep it you 💋

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