Real Girl Diaries- Episode 28 💗

what bores me is blending in.
je suis faite pour me démarquer.

What bores me?

Uncolorful outfits. The endless Pinterest greys, beiges, taupes… like everyone signed a contract to look like a minimalistic living room. I open my feed and it’s the same soft aesthetic copy-paste vibe and I’m just there like… where is the personality? Where is the chaos? Where is the fun?

For example, I have pink UGGs. Not baby pink. Not shy pink. Fuchsia. Very loud, very cute, very me. And I wear them with love. But somehow there’s this silent expectation that I “should” wear chestnut UGGs because they’re classic. Because they go with everything. Because they’re safe.

Why though? Why do my shoes have to match the pavement? Why do they have to blend into the background like they’re trying not to exist? I don’t want my feet to look like ghosts, merci beaucoup. If I’m buying shoes, they’re going to have main character energy.

And honestly this makes so much sense when I think about my chart. Venus is your love language but also your aesthetic language. It’s how you decorate your life. With Venus in Gemini, I get bored. Fast. I need variety, color, movement, something that feels playful. I don’t want to wear the same neutral capsule outfit every day and call it style. I want to feel like I’m in different moods, different eras, different personalities. C’est plus fun comme ça.

Then there’s Lilith. Lilith is that untamed, slightly rebellious feminine energy. The part of you that doesn’t care if people approve. With Lilith in Scorpio, there’s this deep “I’ll do what I want” energy. It’s intense, it’s magnetic, it’s not here to be small. So when everyone expects beige and I show up in pink, it’s not me being dramatic. It’s me being aligned.

I don’t dress to be digestible. I dress to feel alive.

Maybe neutral is timeless, okay. But color is unforgettable. And I would rather be a little extra than painfully predictable.

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